THE VOWS

Marriage vows have always and will always be a cultural norm in every society but how many couples live by their vows?

Religions must have made those vows available for newly wedded couples so as to present their vows before the Lord and the witnesses but then, are what was written in those vows the true feeling of the couples?

While religions and  courts are trying to make the process easy for the couple, they equally make the institute of marriage so easy that couple don’t place value on it or take the time to put in their best to nourish their relationship for the long run.

Think about it.

If my religion sets these general vows for me not knowing my true feeling towards my spouse, I will live by it not knowing how I feel or why I am with a person other than for convenience.

But supposing the task of couples developing their own marriage vows were placed on them individually, it will enable them to search their inner being to determine why they chose a particular person over a million people out there.

Furthermore, every anniversary should serve as a renewal of vows. Couples should take it upon themselves to renew their vows every anniversary and every vows should be unique.

We learn and discover new things everyday about our spouse that makes him/her exceptional. Those things should serve as a basis for anniversary vows. By renewing these vows every anniversary, couple will appreciate each other more, improve each other and strengthen their love etc.

Another reason why renewal of vows is vital is when couple knows they must renew the vow, they must strive to find words that describe the importance or how their feeling has advanced towards their spouse and if it comes to a point where couples couldn’t describe how they feel for each other or why they choose each other then they know that their relationship might be heading toward destruction and must find a way to spice it up.

HOW NOT TO LIE and not tell the truth

If you are lover of SHREK MOVIE SERIES (Shrek the third), you will probably learn how not to lie but not telling the truth. Pinocchio taught us how not to lie and not to tell the truth

HAPPY SALLAH

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MADNESS OR WHAT DO YOU THINK?

So I came across these pictures and I wonder what the world is becoming. I dont get it. Is this fashion or nay? and what massage are they passing across

fashion

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Artificial jewellery
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THINKING ALOUD “NURSES ARE BEAUTIFUL”

I saw a bus (probably that of a Hospital) with an inscription “Nurses are Beautiful” and that made me think aloud.

Should Nurses concerned themselves with beautiful? Is beauty a description used for nurses, those in medical field?

If I go to the hospital and a beautiful nurse was not sent to attend to me, do I reject the nurse? (after all “Nurses are Beautiful”) and I deserve to be attended by one

It would have been great if the inscription was “Nurses are caring”, “Nurses are wonderful”, Nurses are patient” etc. With these descriptions, it elaborate a lot more, they are not just caring, wonderful, patient but they are loveable, enduring, exceptional, beautiful, patient, kind and much more.

Such quote should be used to promote their calling and not focus on physical aspect. Imagine bank using this slogan “Bankers are cute” or Law firm using this “Lawyers dress well” etc, that will not dignify the organization.  When you use the right phrase, you impact the right feeling.

Nurses are special because their job involves caring for the sick unlike the doctors whose only concern is to  cure the sick, Nurses make the sick feel better and that why they deserve a better slogan such as “Nurses are exceptional” “Nurses are extraordinary” etc but using beautiful to describe nurse is placing them below their quality. 

FOR MORE: http://nursinglink.monster.com/education/articles/21732-106-reasons-why-everyone-should-love-nurses?print=true

                

WHAT IN A NAME

Today is another bright day for me to ponder over this:  A BRIDE KEEPING HER MAIDEN NAME.
I was recently asked by a friend if I would like to keep my maiden name (family name) after marriage and when I responded, he was sort of against my responds and then it got me thinking. Keeping a maiden name, is it necessary? Does it worth all the fuss about it? Isn’t it highly overrated?
Think about it
I have had that name for like a very long time since the day of my birth till the day I want to get marry, that name serves as my identity as been part of something, a family, community, society etc. Keeping the name will remind me where I came from, who I am really, so keeping my maiden name will justify that. I know most celebrity especially those who became celebrity before marriage tends to keep their maiden name for the reason that they have built up a professional reputation that they don’t want to compromise, even though they are married so as to remind them who they were, where they came from.
So I decided to keep my maiden name after marriage, does that make my husband less of a man? Should that seriously affect his ego? Keeping my maiden name does stop me from having my husband’s name which of course everyone knows it always the last name.
On the other hand, leaving my maiden name out of the equation shouldn’t raise any issue whatsoever, as I have taken another man’s name (which I vow in holy matrimony to uphold) that name should give me an identity and a good one. That name should add value to me and swear to profess, protect and provide for me. That name I have decided to take against all odd, that name should promise to never make me regret dropping my maiden name and we should together uphold the reputation of that name because that is the name I will finally be remembered with.

My point is, A BRIDE KEEPING HER MAIDEN NAME IS OVERRATED

Guys: How do you feel about your wives keeping her maiden name?
Ladies: Would you love to still use your maiden name after marriage?
What your take on this?

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